Once you hear them with these deceptive statements, that’s in the past, it was my past, don’t judge me by my past, I’m not ashamed of my past, the past doesn’t matter, everyone has a past, etc. Just don’t have anything to do with them, they’re as rotten as an egg and they’re the very ones that will make life so hellish for you. Most of them have done things that even satan will be afraid to have them around. I unfortunately married one without making inquiries as the father deceptively claimed to be a religious man, the nightmare was something else before the marriage packed up.