True to an extent. But, also, adultery is a choice, people know they are not to be close to opposite sex, and stop all communication with ex boyfriend/girlfriend, not get to familiar with opposite sex, Set boundary with opposite sex, not make silly jokes with opposite sex and so on, but they will rather deceive themselves. Even virgins cheat, few days after marriage, months to marriage. The thing is, the conclusion is, adultery is a planned, deliberate intentional wicked act, it can never be a mistake. We all know the gender that will always blame it on, he is one minute man, he has small penis, he is always not around, and other silly excuses they make.