I don?t like men who trek. I prefer to be single than date or marry a man that will introduce me to his struggling lifestyle – Nigerian businesswoman says

A Nigerian businesswoman, Anthonia Umerah, has said she would rather be single than date or marry a man who will introduce her to their struggling lifestyle. 

She stated this while reacting to a post by one Ami Mimi, who said that prostitution begins when a woman feels she’s too beautiful to date a struggling man. 

Anthonia, who owns a car, recalled her experience with an admirer who tried to shame and guilt trip her for saying she can’t date a man who doesn’t have a car.  

“Either beautiful or ug ly, everyone should. Choose the life they want for themselves. Na person wey never experience Whàt struggling means will say this n0nsense,” she wrote.

 

Me for example….I prefer to be single than date or marry certain categories of men that will introduce me to their struggling lifestyle. Struggle your struggle alone bro! Don’t involve me.

 

I learnt to be very vocal about my choices from men. Men are very straight forward when it comes to their choices in woman.

 

Few days ago, I meant a new man…just few minutes into our conversation….he asked me why I am single and I told him it is my choice. I equally asked him and he started wailing that women he likes don’t like dating him be the does not have a car which is a l0w self esteem problem on his own part that he is yet to realize. The proceeded to ask me…”I hope you are not like other women who can’t date a man who doesn’t have a car”.