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I thought I would be married by now, says TBoss - The Nation

I thought I would be married by now, says TBoss – The Nation

By Adeniyi Adewoyin

TBoss, a popular BBNaija’s ex-housemate, has taken some time to reflect on her life and aspirations while growing up.

The mother of one took to her Instagram page to reveal what she thought her wedding day would look like.

TBoss said she had always dreamt of having a beach wedding with her natural hair and no shoes on but as destiny would have it, she’s a single mother today.

“If anybody had told me that I would get to this age and not be married, I would have rebuked them. I was the girl that always imagined being a wife and mother.

“I have literally never envisioned my wedding day except that it would be nice to have it done on a beach without shoes on and I would like to have my natural hair – no weaves nothing. Just us both, close family and loved one,” she wrote in a long note on Instagram.”

Going further, the single mum said though she’s being hailed by fans for making motherhood adorable, there are lots of things happening behind the scene.

“Y’all can’t even imagine how much I have given to my relationships. I gave till I had nothing left for myself. I have been heartbroken too many times and yet I never gave up on love. Still haven’t-ish.

“But alas, life had other plans for me. I’m a single mother. I laugh when I see some of the comments about how I make motherhood look so sweet and I get lots of DMS about ladies wanting to have kids because of my portrayal of motherhood. Thanks. I’m flattered.

“However it is hard – Last night, I was up begging and screaming at my daughter to go to sleep at 4:30 am. The night before it was 5:30 am, the one before that was 5:am – She just wasn’t having it.

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“I don’t get a chance to do my own stuff, I can’t get a moment to shave my armpits or have a proper convo with my friends because Lil mama is gonna cook her teddy bear in the middle of the living room, taking a leak in private is luxury.

“My body has changed tremendously, I’m losing hair, my eyes are puffy and black and sunken. I can’t afford to have off-days because my mood would affect hers. Days when she’s under the weather- I lose sleep so badly that I break down as soon as she gets better. Pampers, wipes, baby food, clothes, cosmetics ain’t cheap.

“Constantly wondering if I’m doing the right thing? Constantly, thinking about her future. I’m constantly looking out for opportunities to invest for her, losing money. Last week, I lost so much money I’m yet to break down from that one and yet every single day I get up – grumpily sometimes but I show up for my daughter.

“I do it for her regardless of my emotions. You know why? Because she didn’t ask to be here. I made the decision to have her and I’m gonna see this journey blossom till I draw my last breath.

“So, Happy Father’s Day to me and all you beautiful mothers and amazing fathers out there.”

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