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The truth is abroad or Nigeria , Nigeria women are the same , it’s just that a lot of men do not know the character of women. The reason women act the way they do abroad after seeing money is basically the fault of the man . I spent a lot of money to train my wife as a nurse overseas,when I met her she was in school studying nursing, I later found out she is very brilliant and then I asked her what is her ambition? She said she wants to rise to matron cos the pay is big. I started laughing, she was surprised and wondered why I was laughing. She said hey boy, the salary is above 400k and I laughed the more . I asked her if 400k is what she would like to earn after all the stress and sleepless nights? And I said don’t worry, you willl not practice here in Nigeria . I dint even know know I was going to marry her. Fast forward , I spent a lot of $ to train her , but till this day, I don’t even know how much is her pay, I have my own thing going on for my self and I don’t need her money or that of anyone by Gods grace . I have told her, she owes me nothing, if she wants to leave , I won’t stop her, cos God sent me to her. I don’t do what I did because I wanted her to work for me. And she knows it. Now, these men spend a lot of money training a women with the believe she will carry him along when the money starts coming, but he forgets that women are not wired to take care of family and that is where the problem starts . The man feels I gave you this , why can’t you put it in the family and the women feels , I can’t be taking care of the family when you are there .is not that the man can not train him self , but overseas. One person has to work while the other go to school and nature makes the man work to train his wife in school .cos it sound weird for a woman to work and train her husband in school . Believe me , even I. Nigeria when a woman starts earning more that her husband, she start acting up, why we don’t hear of these in Nigeria is because , a lot of women in Nigeria do not have money to run them selves talk less if family . The system can not give you a job , but in overseas, a little job can guarantee your survival, unlike in Nigeria where women depend on husbands. Check it, you will never see a woman that is doing well in Niger complain about the bad attitude of her husband. She just walks away cos she can take care of her self
