My father wouldn’t provide food for a week or month whenever he had a problem with my mother but she didn’t leave the marriage – Nigerian man says

A Nigerian man, Kelechi has taken to social media to speak about the time his father used to refuse to provide food for the family for a week or a month whenever he had a problem with his mother. 

He disclosed this while addressing women who leave their marriages over marital conflicts or their husband’s inability to provide food. 

 

“I remember while growing up if my mom and dad had a problem my father would not provide food for a week and even a month sometimes and my mother would be the one taking care of everything which is not good as a father but we her children would decode that there was a problem but my mom didn’t leave the marriage due to it but rather she turned it into knowing how to do business but this our generation any marital quarrel that results in no physical äbüse or continuing not providing food for the family bööm they will leave the marriage and tag it my mental health is more important than the marriage,” he wrote.

 

“Madam Marriage is not rosy and will never be. For many of us here, our fathers made our mothers jäcks of all trades due to our fathers’ continuous inability to provide food at home. 

 

“Madam go and learn work, start up something before entering marriage to avoid leaving your marriage unnecessarily because no marriage out there is perfect okwu nke oseburuwa.”