It is not too late for the bride to back off, this is a GREEN LIGHT of a lazy and undependable husband. A man like this can encourage his wife to sleep with another man outside just to bring money home for his lazy ass to feed. Even if he borrowed money to do the wedding that’s his choice and his responsibility. You don’t throw a party based on expectation that your guests will spray you more than enough to payoff any loan for your showoff party. Dem force you? Foolish man!