Your lifestyle and culture are working against your prayers – Reno Omokri tells single women who sing ”Carry me dey go my husband house”

People may not like Reno but he’s very correct, Africans believes in prayers and won’t work towards it, a woman should be financially ok, it doesn’t mean she must be a millionaire but must be able to be supportive no matter how little, lots of men want to get married but where are the women? Men have their bad sides too but the Africa way of life have given men the advantage for example a man can sleep with 10 girls in his street and people will hail him and call him a sharp guy but if a woman does then she’s wayward and promiscuous, what makes bad husband in Africa is when the man is lazy and physically abusive but women has many responsibilities, an Africa woman is expected to be decent both in dressing and lifestyle, she’s expected to be domesticated, a good cook, respectful, tolerating, patience, faithful, submissive, helper and many more so you can see the Africa life style has too many responsibilities for women and Africa men also set those responsibilities as a qualification for a good wife, so marriage in Africa now is like a business whereby you have to produce a standard quality for people to patronize you, why is it all about women because women are the ones at the receiving end they have limited time to produce kids, there are ageshame and if a woman lives the rest of her life without marriage she will be tag a bad woman so the society has placed a very big responsibilities on women, some women says they are civilized and will not follow the Africa way of life but many of those women failed in their marriage and many are still single, it’s just a simple thing when you are in Rome behave as a Roma, the civilized countries we always talk about also have their own way for example it’s a must in a civilized world for husband and wife to share bills and many other things, now the best way for Africa women is not praying for husband what they need is to be prepared for husband, women should learn to be responsible, don’t sell yourself for the highest bidder, learn self control and stop jumping into the bed of every man, be hard working and independent it doesn’t mean you must be a millionaire, be honest let a man be able to trust you, be submissive and supportive and biggest of all be faithful believe it or not if you can practice those things in few time those qualities go carry you go your husband house, remember success happens when opportunity meet with preparations, men knows what they want and when they find one they don’t waste time to get it, so praying and singing won’t take anyone to husbands house the only thing that takes a woman to her husband’s house and keep her there is her good character, another big disadvantage is family background there are some family no man will wish to marry from, there are families who sees men as an avenue for success, there are families who believes they are responsibility of the man because he’s married from them, I know someone who call of his wedding because of the list that were given to him not that he can’t afford but it was pointless for a family to demand such things before they will give their daughter out in marriage, and for me I have learned to understand it’s very important to study the family of any woman you want to marry very well, so you may like Reno or not but what he said is nothing but the truth, many women are single today because of their life style and family, not everything that needs prayers and not every problem is devil or enemies sometimes we are the problems of ourselves

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