Nigerians advise lady to go ahead with her wedding after another woman claimed to be pregnant for her fiancé

If You sought the face of God and He gave you approval to go ahead and marry him. You should have gone back to seek the face of when doubt, fear and confusion start creeping in and not FACEBOOK.
God is not the author of confusion, when He leads or guide you, He gives peace of mind. Where these are lacking, it is better to postpone the wedding till you are sure. Don’t rush when ever things are confusing.
Don’t disregard the rumour, investigate it properly. Men that goes after anything under skirt hardly stop even after marriage. If he impregnate her and dump her, what makes you think he will not impregnate another after marrying you. If he slept with her with the promise of marriage and abandoned her after getting getting his cravings, what makes you think he will be committed to only you after marriage. What makes a man or woman to multi-date is lust in the heart, and a lustful heart is unsatisfiable even if you give him or her ten men or women to sleep with.
Divorce is on the increase and one of the reasons is infidelity. You will be tempting God if you truly see any signs that he slept with the lady and you still go ahead with the marriage.
Don’t allow anyone deceive you, the past matter alot in any relationship. Infact, many consequences of the past are always in the future. Marriage is more spiritual than physical, you both share in the curses (consequences of the past and future) and the blessings (benefits of the past and future). Everyone has a past, very true, but not everyone has a dark past.
If every man takes responsibility of their actions, there will be no single mom. And the single mom, many a great men will reject them because of their status. I’m a man and can never marry a single mom not allowed my son to marry one either provided he is not responsible for any single mom pregnancy. I will personally investigate it myself and even do DNA test.
So, if almost all men are running from them, why should a man that impregnated her leave her for another, it’s a great wickedness and if you support evil, evil will definitely come back to you, what a man sows, is the same he shall reap of God. If a woman can’t show her fellow woman compassion, how do expect a man to marry her out of compassion.
Note, if the lady out of shame and problem she will face in the future terminated the pregnancy, both the man and woman will share the punishment of God equally, though he is your husband. If blood is on the woman’s hand, blood is also on the man’s hand, and wherever blood is, it ALWAYS CRY FOR VENGEANCE FROM GOD.

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