Men, it’s okay to find a woman who can cook but realize that many duties in the home are now no longer gender exclusive. Both parties are now paying rent, school fees, buying food and taking care of children. I am married and there are really no boundaries to what I do in the house or what my husband does. We do everything together. Today, I may be the one to contribute the bulk. Tomorrow, it may be him. And trust me, my marriage is a very happy one. My point is that you cannot judge someone by what they cannot do. So because she cannot cook, you miss out on other good things she might possess and vice versa? She can always learn to cook.