You are more attractive to a man when you do not ”need” him – Actress Shaffy Bello harps on the need for women to ”bring something to the table” in a relationship/marriage

See how you are venting on top of another person ideology. A person that treats their significant other like trash is trash. It is not about what they are bringing to the table or not. The good thing about being able to bring something to the table is that if you do not like how the other person is treating you on this table you are both holding the legs, you have the liberty to say you are not doing again and you’d be fine without the person. I knew started yarning dust when you said women should look inwards if it is not working like they are always the problem. And yes, a man will want you more when you don’t need him, needing him doesn’t necessarily me sex companionship cos I have seen where you mentioned sex toys etc in your comment. Her whole point is that every reasonable man will value a woman who is an asset to him more than one who is a liability. Only weak, insecure men are comfortable with women who cannot bring anything to the table so they can control them. When insecure men meet women who can bring alot to the table, they are intimidated. When they meet the ones who cannot bring something to the table, they abuse them. So women, whatever you do, make sure you try to fend for yourself, so at least you will have options and not remain in bondage with nonsense solely because of your financial situation

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