The first time I was cheated on, I lost a 4 months old pregnancy and my BP skyrocketed – Nigerian woman shares how infidelity affects women

A Nigerian woman, Olatope Omoniyi has said that infidelity can have a significant effect on the mental and physical health of a woman.

Sharing her experience in a Facebook post on Tuesday, December 31, Olatope narrated how she suffered a miscarriage after she was cheated on.

‘’Shall we talk about cheating and its effects?! Men, your cheating ways affect your women. You really need to know this. So when you do it, know the repercussions too. Don’t say, I did not know it will lead to this. For every action, there will be cause and effect,”

The first time I experienced cheating, I lost a 4 months old pregnancy. I couldn’t believe it. I couldn’t stand it. My BP sky rocketed. I was in deep pain. Those kind of pain where you can’t scream out but your heart is screaming.

It was as if a dagger pierced my heart and no one to remove it. I would pinch myself. Cried myself to sleep and wake up. Imagine so many things. I went into the cupboard, pack all the clothes there and burnt it.

I cried. I cried. I cried. I cried for days. I refused to step out.

My eyes got swollen and a neighbour asked why, I lied that I was reacting to my glasses.

I lost the will to live. If you have experienced deep love, you will experience deep pain when you face betrayal.

Now I don be jigan. You cheat on me, I no send you. I don turn witch sef. No woman will come to me about cheating and I will advice her to leave. NEVER! You two go dye there together. Unless you like sufferness, my dear, stay there and thrive. People like us survived too and we no die. Look at me nahhhh….