Nigerians react as Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo launches marriage platform with N700,000 VIP package
Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo, the founder of David’s Christian Centre and a well-known relationship coach, has ignited a widespread online discussion following the introduction of his new matchmaking platform, “Mentor To Marry.” The platform offers various membership packages priced between 70,000 and 700,000 naira annually, aiming to connect Christian singles seeking serious relationships.
According to Okonkwo, “Mentor To Marry” is intended to facilitate intentional matchmaking through a combination of mentoring, assessments, and guided connections. However, the pricing structure has sparked significant debate on social media, with many questioning whether the high cost is appropriate for a service meant to assist singles in finding partners.
On the platform X, user @gatsegwasiPhD criticized the initiative, pointing out a perceived contradiction in the pastor’s message. “Don’t you see how you are contradicting yourself? You say relationships are commercialized, yet ask men who may not have money to pay 700,000 naira to meet ‘godly’ women?” the commenter wrote.
Similarly, @DaraMoren1 echoed these sentiments, remarking, “Relationships have been so commercialized nowadays, yet you went ahead to commercialize it. Mentor To Marry has Regular, Premium, and VIP pricing tiers.” Another user, @ndilichi1261151, posed a rhetorical question regarding the value of the highest membership package, suggesting an alternative investment for the same amount of money.
Concerns about the platform’s pricing were also voiced on Facebook. User King Phill remarked, “If relationships have become increasingly commercialized, then why is he also commercializing it?” Comfort Bassey Bee made a parallel observation, questioning whether Okonkwo is contributing to the very issue he addresses.
Despite the criticism, some supporters argue that professional matchmaking and relationship coaching are legitimate services for which individuals can choose to pay. Former Big Brother Naija contestant Neo stated, “The man did nothing wrong. Since Nigerian men and women cannot choose right to save their own lives, maybe paying for counseling will unlock common sense.”
In defense of the platform, others noted that “Mentor To Marry” appears to offer services beyond simple matchmaking, including mentorship and structured assessments to guide participants in their search for partners.
The debate surrounding this initiative continues to unfold across social media, reflecting a divide between those who view it as a constructive approach to contemporary dating challenges and those who believe the associated costs may deter potential participants.
